18 DPO

or CD3. whatever.

Yeahhh another stinky BFN. I was disappointed...but I can't stay disappointed. We have to keep our heads up and keep moving forward. That's that.

Our KD has made an appointment for tomorrow to get things checked out on his end. Maybe he has a low count or low motility? We should know something by the end of the week. Depending on the results we either: 1. Have me checked out (if his results come back normal) & then go from there. 2. Move on to February armed with a better timing plan...wait for the dang smiley, no more jumping the gun. 3. Move on to our other -more local- KD. I really really want things to work out with KD#1...I know I've said before that's the most ideal plan...but I also wanted to have a baby while I was 25. That plan is slowly fading too. I still consider us lucky to pretty much have our choice of FREE baby making materials. It will work when our stars line up and the universe is ready to give us our baby. I know that.

We found out yesterday a couple of people we know locally are trying to start a family too!! This is so so so exciting :) We have been trying to find a couple like us on this roller coaster to better relate to. I know we have a great support system, but try as they might no straight couple will ever understand what it takes for us to bring home a baby. So having another gay couple right in our own hometown is going to be a wonderful thing. We plan to meet up next week to chat about our methods, disappointments and all things baby :) I can't wait!

For now, we have a busy little week ahead of us. Our friends' daughter's 4th birthday celebration is this evening. Tomorrow Mom and I are going to get supplies for our camping adventure this weekend and Courtney has class. Wednesday I'm going to prenatal yoga with my sister in law (I am officially crazy I think). Courtney has class and I will be vegging out on the couch Thursday. Mom and I leave for Girl Scout camp Friday afternoon. --we go every year with a small group of girls (from our old troop) and our moms to kind of catch up on each others lives...its always a good time!!-- I don't know what Courtney is going to get into this weekend...maybe she will move some furniture around ;)

That's about all there is to catch up on now.

12DPO

Might as well make a 12dpo post, right?

There really isn't much to report today other than the fact that I poured my coffee out this morning because it was making me sick. Also I only had a small cup yesterday because of the same reason. It's probably just the progesterone creeping up. Oh & my boobs are sore now...I was just waiting for that to happen. 

We had a nice relaxing weekend with family in a cozy cabin...(picture 9 people in a one bedroom cabin) good thing we all like each other :) I forgot my thermometer so I missed two days of temping :( whoops!!

I am sad to say I am not feeling as confident as I was at the beginning of this try. I don't know why...maybe its intuition or maybe its my way of guarding myself from a possible BFN? Courtney is still very hopeful which is great because one of us needs to be!! I just can't let myself get my hopes up and then be really let down.

I think tomorrow morning's temperature will be my deciding factor. If it goes up, I think I will be a little more hopeful...of course if it goes down, I'll be preparing myself for AF within a day or two.

I am hoping to be surprised tomorrow!! Otherwise, onwards and upwards!

*baby dust*

8 DPO

Well, guys this progesterone really doesn't have too many side effects on me. I am noticing that I am really pretty tired in the evenings, but normal progesterone from my body will do that too. I have noticed very small cramps more localized to my right side (I keep thinking if the progesterone supplements would cause cramping it would be my entire lower abdomen) I could be wrong. I have also noticed I am sweating more in the night...I don't know if that was one of the side effects or not, but it probably is. Still not bothersome.

Usually by this time my boobs are super sore, or at the very least starting to get sore. I was sure these supplements would cause that pain to double...but I don't have any soreness at all. That's a bit strange (&&& maybe good - shhhhh!!)

I haven't noticed any crazy mood swings either...I have been snippy, but that's pretty typical the week before AF for me anyway.

Here I was psyching myself out for all these intense side effects of the P-Monster...and I am experiencing pretty much NONE of them. Don't get me wrong, I'm happy I am pretty much sailing through this process...but I think maybe I was hoping for the side effects to help me know it was "working."

I am happy to be able to get away for part of this weekend with my family in the mountains. We had some gorgeous snow yesterday afternoon...well it was gorgeous once I was FINALLY safely home. It was a nightmare driving the 6.7 miles home. ***People in the South have no idea how to drive in the snow...and I think the snow driving section of driver's ed was just completely skipped over for most part. I have lived here my entire life, but I also had very smart driving teachers...not even just my driver's ed teacher, but Mom and Dad and Carol.***

Anyway, getting away for a couple days will take our minds off the TWW for a bit, and maybe help time pass :) We aren't testing until next Friday (or so we say)...since I Od later that pushed my AF start date back a little bit too, so we have a whole WEEK left. BLAHH!

Wish us luck and baby dust :)

4 DPO

& I just feel fat.

I hate this part of the cycle regardless of TTC or not. The natural surge of progesterone just makes me super bloated and constipated and blah. You're welcome, I know you all wanted to know I can't poo.

At the advice of a trusty follower, Courtney and I bought a puzzle...not just any puzzle a 2000 (!!!!!) piece puzzle. Of course we couldn't just get any 2000 piece puzzle, we had to get "Starry Night" I have always loved that painting...so why not? We even bought some puzzle glue stuff to preserve it when we finish it! I think we may start on it this evening. The dining room table is ready for us to get started!

Like the title says, I am 4dpo today. FF tried to say I was 3dpo today...but I went ahead and manually changed that business to the correct day. My temp was the lowest, I had ovulation cramps, and all the other lovely signs Thursday, nothing on Friday (but because my temperature took a day to make that spike, FF decided I didn't actually ovulate til Friday. This is the closest timing we've had for an insem. out of all 3...just two days early, let's hope that's all the difference we needed to get a sticky bean! I started taking my progesterone supplements last night...it tastes horrible. It is a liquid and I have to take 5 drops every AM & PM. gross.

So in a couple of days when I start to notice "symptoms," I can just attribute them all to the nasty progesterone supplements. For now, I am sitting at my desk with my pants undone so I'm not suffocating.

Keep sending us that BABY DUST!!!!

Who's Ready for Another TWW?!

Not. Me.

Just kidding, I am incredibly excited/anxious/nervous/ready/happy to be here again. Well, not that we are technically 'here' yet, but we will be officially tomorrow - Ready or not!

Our KD shipped out yesterday afternoon, so it should be arriving any minute now at the house. I told Courtney she had to wear clothes "to work" today. Lucky butt works from home, so she is super comfy most days!

My mom is just the cutest. I know I've said it before and will until I can no more. Last night she surprised us with a visit and a nice cozy blanket with a super cute Christmas onesie wrapped up inside it. She thought it would be nice to have for today! & a little something for the little something we ARE going to make :)...she is so great :) Carol sent along some coupons for Buy Buy Baby with her. That store is going to be trouble.

Today is CD18...I still haven't gotten the smiley on the digital OPK, but my temp dropped for two days in a row & then rose slightly this morning. In past months, that is EXACTLY what happens when I am going to ovulate. I am confident in our timing, and I am sure that smiley is just hours away now. (All other signs are a go, too!)

I went for acupuncture this past Saturday. It was all relaxing and calming, and informative. I am glad I went and will most likely be back soon. He did give me some progesterone to take, either after O or after a +hpt. I could choose which I felt more comfortable with. After some research and endless questioning from all my different sources, I have decided to go ahead with it 3dpo...until testing day which should be January 22. (I wouldn't be able to wait for AF, because if progesterone does its job it will suppress AF). I have been warned about the side effects and how they are nearly identical to PG symptoms. I feel like that might actually be better for me. That way anything I feel, I can just say 'oh that's just the progesterone'...and not let myself get too hopeful. It seems like the benefits out weigh the sneaky side effects. I haven't had any tests to know if my levels are too low or anything, but if the very low dose he gave me can't hurt, then it can only help in my eyes. So, I'm going for it. I feel sorry for Court though....mood swings are not going to be fun for her!

I want to have something to do each day of this TWW, so maybe I don't stress/obsess too much :) HA HA HA. I'm funny.

Anyway......now we wait...for the package, then the test! Shew, I hope this is it.

(*baby dust*)

Another One Looking Back

Hey all. I'm feeling a little stir crazy.. or something to that extent today. I'm working on getting over a cold and I'm feeling all peevy so it doesn't help that ALL of the neighborhood dogs are going crazy, causing our dog to go crazy in here with me and the noise is about to drive me nuts so I decided to take a break to write a blog. First I thought Jamie's little 2012/2013 thing looked fun so I'm going to give it a go. Let's remember that my family is not a significant part of my life due to their beliefs conflicting with my life as is so where normally an important family member would be the answer to some questions, it'll probably be Jamie in my answers. She'll probably like seeing that she's such a big influence on me anyways.. haha.

..Looking Back on 2012
1. What was your greatest accomplishment of 2012?
I have a hard time making decisions or picking a favorite/best thing so I may say a few here. I'd say I'm pretty darn proud of myself for going back to school. Even if to get an Associates in General Studies.. I guess that's what it is.. I'm doing it to better myself. I've also done a bit of growing up so that is always good.

2. What was your greatest fear of 2012?
I think my greatest fear was growing up and becoming more responsible. Moving to Knoxville and even discussing starting a family was a huge decision which was very scary, but has ended up being so worth it. I only wish I could have done it earlier!

3. Who influenced you the most in 2012?
My biggest influence, and the person I have spent most of my time with, was and is Jamie. She will probably never know all of the good she has done for me, but she has definitely had a significant part in the making of who I am today. I know I'm capable of a lot, but sometimes it takes some pushing and Jamie was there to push when I needed it the most and I'm more than thankful for that. She has shown me how to be a more responsible person and what it's like to be a part of a family who loves you for exactly who you are and that's something that I will never be able to repay her for.

4. What is(are) your favorite memory(ies) from 2012?
I think one of my favorite memories from 2012 was bringing in the New Year in DC. We had a ton of fun on that trip and I only wish we could have brought in 2013 by running around Dupont Circle.

5. Did you accomplish any of your goals for 2012?
I am glad to say that I accomplished a lot of goals for 2012. I paid off my car loan, which is funny to say because I have a little Honda POS, but I had to take out a loan on it and I paid it off about 6 months early. I've also taken a good chunk of money that most people my age would spend frivolously and put it towards paying off debt instead AND I started going back to school.

Hopes for the New Year...
1. What is your number one goal for 2013?
Clearly mine and Jamie's number one goal is to make a healthy, happy baby. I'm hoping we'll have one in our arms around the end of this year :) I also would like to graduate college at the end of the year.. or at least be a class away.

2. What do you want other people to remember most about you at the end of 2013?
I'd like for people to see and remember me as a kind hearted person. I want people to know I'm deserving of the child Jamie and I are trying to have and know that we'll be the best parents we can be.

3. How do you plan to make an impact on the world in 2013?
I don't have any huge plans to conquer the world yet, but I'd like to think that my little political and civil rights rants in the world of social media at least can impact someone to greater thinking ;)

4. Where is one place you want to visit in 2013?
I also don't have any huge plans here. I'd just like to plop my butt down on a sandy beach for a week or so. That's not asking too much, right??

5. How would you like to see yourself improve in 2013?
I want to read more, eat better, exercise more, learn more, become more patient and tolerant, more educated, more motivated, etc, etc.. We can always be better than we are now!

Now that that's over with let's get to the good stuff. Insemination! I can't remember if Jamie's already mentioned this or not, but she has an acupuncture appointment Saturday and we're hoping they can work some fertility mojo into the routing. She has also been drinking her FertiliTea as directed (for the most part) so now we just wait to receive our spermies and go for it! I think that this will be our best try yet and I am as confident as I can be without feeling like we're going to jinx things. Let's just all keep our fingers and toes crossed that this insemination results in a successful pregnancy. The timing could not be more perfect for us so let's make this work!! Talk to you all soon :)